Friday, December 7, 2007

THE LITMUS TEST

Friends…...people who share our thoughts,multiply our joy,divide our sorrow in the days of generation gap.it is with regard to those friends who share only your joy,who contact you only in times of their need,that i write this.the litmus test here refers to those times in life when one feels completely alone in the crowd,when one yearns deeply for warmth and affection and in times of need of a shoulder to cry on.. It is only during these times when one can really discriminate between true and pseudo friends. This article does not carry any new message nor boasts of a visionary change but is a wreath offered to all my hi-bye friends whom I have thrown away from my life into the coffin of bad memories and nightmares.the biggest mistake ever committed is commitment and dedication to those who merely see one as an “opportunity” or one among the many “steps of the ladder to success.”
Unfortunately the negativity that these people gift us not only damages our happiness but also kills the joy of the people around us especially our parents upon whom we release our rage and frustration. Too strange is our world,too complex our life where one loves someone who never cares and one is loved by someone,one always shys away from.

3 comments:

Unknown said...

hi...bye frds...........
athil njan varillennu karuthunnu
in my experience also many r ther.....who wer with me only in times of need
so i maintain the same mode of feelings with u
but some wer with me even i m so bad to them.........
i feel personally......frdshp is a bond which cant be broken.........
never..never....never.........

Najah said...

jidhin wat u said is true.....in our life u ...me nd others all must hav com across wid such pseudo frnds....its really hurting ven v realise tat they never been sincere 2 us but still this happens again nd again as v cant predict until a problem comes 2 us nd only few true frnds remain 2 help us out.....true frnds r really a blessing

ancyks said...

hi....jus happened to read this now.it did send a chill and also a smile rushed out somewhere from its hideouts....i wonder if u have put me away,too,in a coffin...hope not.

one thing that i'll gladly agree is that committment is one of the biggest mistakes....but yet some people tend to make the same mistake over and over again...hurting themselves...it's like a vicious circle.can't help it.